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madcatlady has commented in the forum discussions 'Skinny Sista's'
Hey lovelies,reading and know you're all inspiring me,lost several posts..I don't have word on tablwt t so need to type e mail to s elf then copy which is a faf... 36 minutes ago
madcatlady has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hiya I'm loving reading here,not posting much but you're all helping me.keep my sober mojo.X mas dinner with friends at ours tomorrow..ignoring booze bs thought... 44 minutes ago
Sparkles has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
 Congratulations to everyone on The Hope and Glory Team ☀!  Congratulations to our Monthly Milestone Achievers 🎶!     ❤ Please remember to post regularly   and... 58 minutes ago
MegDav posted a comment on Day 47
Everything is sounding really positive. Best wishes💓💕 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on An unexpected gratitude
Ah, what an amazing blog! So wonderful to reach that attire of gratitude and that your OH is also benefiting from your being AF! So happy for you💓💕💖 1 hour ago
mayflowerblossom has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
Meechelle posted a comment on A non boozy walk
Wow this is beyond gorgeous !!! Well done and lucky you! Nature is the best medicine. It’s simply amazing 💕 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on Bereavement- how family members should tell me
Oh I’m so sorry that you lost your stepfather, and what a terrible way to get the news. People can be so uncaring in this digital age! Glad you blogged here fo... 1 hour ago
Sparkles has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Oooh PaintingGirl what a glamorous event to attend. Only rotated the ones that loaded sideways :-) 1 hour ago
Flopsybunny has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Still here... still KOKO.... miss you all.Struggling with this massively MASSIVE change in life. I have never faced anything so hard and it feels like the entir... 2 hours ago
kula posted a comment on My story
Thank you Katie and Science girl, I intend to stay close. 2 hours ago
Deb7813 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 2 hours ago
PaintingGirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Some of the dresses tonight were truly incredible. By then end of the night there were quite a few drunk, slightly staggering, slurring people all chain smoking... 2 hours ago
Tray74 posted a comment on Day 47
That is great news about your friend for NYE. Smart thinking! Hope you have a nice vacation. 2 hours ago
Jodijo has commented in the forum discussions Solo's Continued
Sorry for he typos but you know it’s spellchecker + pissed off!!! 2 hours ago
PixieDustMagic posted a comment on Exhaustion
It took me about 2 - 3 months. One thing I noticed is that I needed to adjust my coffee intake -- didn't need nearly as much once I stopped drinking. 2 hours ago
PaintingGirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Quick v late check in. Just finished the event tonight. V glamorous. Arrived and was given 4 glasses of champagne at the reception by various clients. Kept subt... 2 hours ago
Tray74 posted a comment on A non boozy walk
the photo is stunning and your blog is bursting with joy! Love it!! 2 hours ago
Retiredandlovingit has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Vespa, there I was struggling with the tablet and my certificate pops up. I got very choked up.Thank you for the special way you and Sparkles make these days s... 2 hours ago
Cathrine posted a comment on 2019 What a Year
Welcome back Hawkgirl.Thank you for sharing your stoy. Looking forward to reading more about your journey.💕💗💕Cathrine 2 hours ago
Retiredandlovingit has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Thank you Sparkles for righting Belle, she appreciates it. I so wish I could sing in a choir, I can't carry a tune in a bucket, but think it would be a blast.... 2 hours ago
Vespagirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
300 for RALI!😊 2 hours ago
Retiredandlovingit posted a comment on 2019 What a Year
Good for you. You are right, you need to find a tribe that will become your tribe.And Welcome back. 3 hours ago
Michelle_132 has commented in the forum discussions Sober Summer Sistas 2019
Hi, friends. Long time no talk lol. It was crazy with my mom in town. Tried to stay off my phone and give her my attention. We like to play Wii when she comes h... 3 hours ago
Jodijo has commented in the forum discussions Solo's Continued
Hi all,Just to tell you I won’t be back on this thread when my renewal comes up this month I won’t be renewing. I joined this thread because at the time it was... 3 hours ago
StayingAlive has commented in the forum discussions Dauntless December
Nike began using that ‘Just Do It’ ad slogan in 1987; over 3 decades later it remains their brand identity alongside that iconic ‘swoosh’ symbol, but has also e... 3 hours ago
Hilary_12 has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Hi there, late to read the posts as been to a "soft opening" of a friends new pub. I really didn't want to go to this first social occasion so soon but I planne... 3 hours ago
Sciencegirl posted a comment on My story
Hi lIlly are you still in silcon valley? We have a few California istas and we meet sometimes, message me if you would like to connect with other CA folk 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on A better kind of Christmas
Thanks for the reminder! AF Christmas will be SO much better!!! xoxoKatie 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Christmas
Sounds like you're set and you have a plan in place!!! xoxoKatie 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on 2019 What a Year
Welcome back Hawk Girl, so nice that you're here! This place is great for all of us- we help each other and it's just pretty cool.💖xoxoKatie 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Finding Gratitude in Sobriety
Congratulations and thank you for blogging. I hope that you will continue to blog about your journey. This is a great place to be and it's a wonderful community... 4 hours ago
Aquaholic has posted the blog Day 47
First of all I wanted to thank everyone who gave me advice and support for my holiday which I’m going on next week.I was so blinkered worrying about what alcoho... 4 hours ago
Dóchas has commented in the forum discussions Dauntless December
Hope what an amazing way to give respite to your aching heart. Beautiful. Deme ,1000 days. Youre an amazing girl and seem to grow in strength. hope you had a tr... 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on A non boozy walk
Amazing how much better and clearer everything is when we're sober! What a gorgeous view and walk. Lucky girl🥰xoxoKatie 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on My story
Lilly, you got this. Just stay close and blog about how you're doing. Your honesty will help your sobriety stay strong! I look forward to following your journey... 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Good-byes
Awesome blog! Good riddance alcohol!!!❤️xoxoKatie 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Exhaustion
I think definitely 2-3 months before I found a new normal. I just gave in to it and slept- kind of awesome🥰xoxoKatie 4 hours ago
Jazzabelle has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
FF that's hard. Sending you a gentle hug 💗 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Bereavement- how family members should tell me
I'm so sorry that you're feeling so low and sorry for the loss of your step-father. I guess there is no easy way to break this news. Keep blogging, we're here f... 4 hours ago
Lassie_2 posted a comment on Staying close
Great photo. U look so cool. Gr8 to hear from you. I know ya wont drink xx 4 hours ago
Jackie’s Henry posted a comment on University of Gloucestershire Study - Participants Required
Done! It can only help us find some answers, 4 hours ago
Lassie_2 posted a comment on Ugly Photos📸
Thanks for sharing. We all have been in similiar boat. No drink and it cuts this type of crap.out. ..xx 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on An unexpected gratitude
Beautiful blog. I too took my OH for granted and was almost "afraid" that he would find out how much I was really drinking...duh- he knew all along. Thought I w... 4 hours ago
madcatlady has commented in the forum discussions 'Skinny Sista's'
Hey lovelies,reading and know you're all inspiring me,lost several posts..I don't have word on tablwt t so need to type e mail to s elf then copy which is a faf... 36 minutes ago
madcatlady has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hiya I'm loving reading here,not posting much but you're all helping me.keep my sober mojo.X mas dinner with friends at ours tomorrow..ignoring booze bs thought... 44 minutes ago
Sparkles has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
 Congratulations to everyone on The Hope and Glory Team ☀!  Congratulations to our Monthly Milestone Achievers 🎶!     ❤ Please remember to post regularly   and... 58 minutes ago
MegDav posted a comment on Day 47
Everything is sounding really positive. Best wishes💓💕 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on An unexpected gratitude
Ah, what an amazing blog! So wonderful to reach that attire of gratitude and that your OH is also benefiting from your being AF! So happy for you💓💕💖 1 hour ago
mayflowerblossom has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
Meechelle posted a comment on A non boozy walk
Wow this is beyond gorgeous !!! Well done and lucky you! Nature is the best medicine. It’s simply amazing 💕 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on Bereavement- how family members should tell me
Oh I’m so sorry that you lost your stepfather, and what a terrible way to get the news. People can be so uncaring in this digital age! Glad you blogged here fo... 1 hour ago
Sparkles has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Oooh PaintingGirl what a glamorous event to attend. Only rotated the ones that loaded sideways :-) 1 hour ago
Flopsybunny has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Still here... still KOKO.... miss you all.Struggling with this massively MASSIVE change in life. I have never faced anything so hard and it feels like the entir... 2 hours ago



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