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kula posted a comment on Check in D6
Thank you for your kind words. I just figured out what Koko stands for... I like that🌺🌺🌺 15 minutes ago
rachel31 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 17 minutes ago
scruffyterrier has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations WoHeLo 🎉🎉🎉🎂🎂🎂 34 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Check in D6
Hi Lilly,Congratulations on day 6! Thats great. Keep it up. 💕💗💕Cathrine 37 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Day 80 ! And a trigger I did not see coming .
Hi GIAG,Good self awareness around the trigger. Those can really set you back on your heels. You done good!!!Thank goodness your fur baby is going to be ok. Tho... 44 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on Sober Superpowers Engage
Safe travels. Thank you for sharing the beautiful music. Sending thoughts of strength and health. 50 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
Hi Stormy,I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mother. The thought of you not having someone with you concerns me. Im not sure what labour party comrades are but c... 51 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on Vince Neil
Ha ha ha, New! Kickstart my heart, indeed. 🎶He's beautiful. x 54 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on What a difference a year makes
Beautiful photos and you look so wonderful in the 'after'. Just glowing with health. Thank you for sharing these. 57 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on Check in D6
Great job, Lilly. Keep going. Hangover free Mondays feel SO good. x 1 hour ago
lazsmith99 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
marykathleen has commented in the forum discussions Sober Summer Sistas 2019
Meesh , I was in NYC to see Rockets , and I did go to California for Thanksgiving . And I am still AF! Got 3 months under my belt . Chris went off deep end ag... 1 hour ago
BreathRun has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Checking in. Feeling lots of love for the thread. Can we all take a moment to pat ourselves on the back? If you don't have a back (no judgment), or cant reach y... 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on 114 days
So glad you blogged it out. Just been reading Alcohol explained 2, it’s now on kindle unlimited. Talks about what the brain does to help you forget all the nega... 1 hour ago
Robin13 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congrats for reaching 1 year, Wohelo!! Amazing! Bravo! 🎇🎆 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on Day 80 ! And a trigger I did not see coming .
So glad everything worked out for you and your dog💕💓 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on The pain of alcohol hits another one
So sad to see! Thankful no one was hurt and hope she gets some help!!! 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on Progress
You are doing so well and getting so strong! 1 hour ago
Cathrine posted a comment on 114 days
Hi Paddle,Good for you for staying close and putting sobriety first. You are doing so amazinly well. 💝These thoughts will pass and you'll be right back at it, o... 1 hour ago
Margaret41 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
CONGRATULATIONS WoHeLo! You amazing campfire girl, I’m so excited to see you at your soberversary!!! 👏🎊🎉🎈💪🏽! My skinny sista, you are an inspiration 👏👏👏👏!!!I... 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
So so sorry for your loss 💕💓💖 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on JOMO - Day 75
So good to hear from you and that all is well💕💓 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on My first few months of sobriety
Thanks for sharing and great advice 💕💓 1 hour ago
Margaret41 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
BlueJ, thank you for your activism! ✊ respect!!Bellina, 🤗🤗🤗 Thank you, my dear friend and you are so right. All the years of never getting to day three didn’t... 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on Day 192
Who knows what all the questions were about, maybe she’s a drinker who is trying to compare if she needs to stop!! congratulations on 192 days and glad you are... 1 hour ago
Mary28 posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
Oh, Stormy, I am so sorry for your loss.I don’t know what to say (losing my parents terrifies me) but please know that we are here for you.Reach out to us as ma... 1 hour ago
MegDav posted a comment on Day 142
So nice to hear this💖💓💕 1 hour ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Day 192
P.S. Congratulations on 192. Your zoomin in on the 200!!!🥳🤸‍♀️💝🤹‍♂️❤ 1 hour ago
Escoffier posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
I am so sorry you are going through this, Stormy. You know drinking won’t help this at all. Maybe you will feel better after you see your siblings, funerals hav... 1 hour ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Day 192
Hi Katie,I read that alot on here that GP's don't really give encouragement to those who are no longer drinking. I find that alittle sad, but your right, the su... 1 hour ago
Justus posted a comment on Day 192
Yes, so true, Katie. People just want to make sure you were worse off than they are and that's sad because they are obviously questioning their own drinking bu... 2 hours ago
kula posted a comment on Day 192
Katie, you are such a beautiful presence in this sober space, always offering support and a kind word. I want to thank you for your comments on my blog.You are... 2 hours ago
Vespagirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Big congrats, my friend! You did it! 2 hours ago
kula posted a comment on Day 51, 5 years on😀
51 days is a huge accomplishment. You have the right motivation this time, you can do it ! X Lilly 2 hours ago
kula posted a comment on 114 days
Pad, you are doing fantastic, hang in there, it will pass... Sending good vibes for a quick recovery. Not sure if you are into homeopathic remedies, so I am jus... 2 hours ago
PLR-x posted a comment on Day 80 ! And a trigger I did not see coming .
That’s a massive trigger and I’m so glad you didn’t drink! Do you friends know about you going AF? That comment would trigger me too. So glad your dog responded... 2 hours ago
PLR-x posted a comment on Day 142
Wooooo! I love this! I’m so happy you feel this way💜💜 2 hours ago
PLR-x posted a comment on 114 days
You’re not alone, I’ve had them thoughts creeping in too. But you’re right, I think a hangover would kill me now. KOKO💜💜 2 hours ago
PLR-x posted a comment on Progress
This is lovely, well done!💜 2 hours ago
PLR-x posted a comment on JOMO - Day 75
I relate to all of this sooooo much! Ugh it’s like you’ve taken the thoughts out of my head. Congratulations on 75 days!❤️❤️ 2 hours ago
PLR-x posted a comment on 300 days... my box set trilogy
Wonderful! HUGE congratulations to you❤️❤️❤️ 3 hours ago
Paddlingupstreamwithoutalcohol posted a comment on Day 192
That’s the ticket. You’re doing it for you. I don’t think any of us will get a standing ovation. The quiet contentment beats the drinking days, for sure!!! 3 hours ago
Vespagirl posted a comment on 300 days... my box set trilogy
Poppy love, such an honor to be on this journey with you. 3 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Progress
Amen GG! You're sounding so strong in your sobriety! I love following your journey! So glad that you're feeling better! xoxoKatie💝 3 hours ago
Paddlingupstreamwithoutalcohol posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
I can’t imagine being alone during this time. Is there any family you could stay with before the funeral? Can you join with any church communites near you? Hell... 3 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on 114 days
Yes we do! Stay close cause you don't want to go back there. Even if it's one or two days..then what?? That's what I always have to do- play the tape forward an... 3 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Day 142
Thank you Cathrine!!! I'm so happy that you're in a good place and feeling so wonderful on the inside- such a nice place to be and I hope you can stay there for... 3 hours ago
DamYankee posted a comment on Sometimes I forget that I am Sober.
Terrific blog, Escoffier. I wish there was another word for "sober" that didn't sound so serious and stuffy and staid! Like you, I find long-term sobriety a joy... 3 hours ago
BlueJ has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI Fly past in progress .... must alight here every day ...... heading out tomorrow campaign trail for common sense vote to save this beautiful fragile planet... 3 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Day 80 ! And a trigger I did not see coming .
Gia- a big congrats on 80 days, huge milestone! And so happy to hear that your dog is doing better- it's so hard when our furry friends are sick. It's amazing h... 3 hours ago
NewandWild posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
Are there any Istas near you who you could meet up with on the weekend? Don't like to think of you being alone in this difficult time x 3 hours ago
DamYankee posted a comment on Take a running jump!
Oh I'm sorry to hear you're suffering anxiety, dear friend, that's such an uncomfortable feeling. I have a similar problem in November. For some reason many imp... 3 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Check in D6
Congrats on day 6 Lilly, you're doing it! KOKO! xoxoKatie💞 3 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on The pain of alcohol hits another one
So sad what alcohol does. Poor thing, I know how she's feeling and I hope she can get some help🥰xoKatie 4 hours ago
DamYankee posted a comment on What a difference a year makes
Wow. Wow! I look so terrible in my "before" pix I haven't the courage to post them. You look absolutely fabulous, so healthy and confident! and that lovely girl... 4 hours ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on JOMO - Day 75
Rodley! So nice hearing from you and glad that you're doing so well! 💜💪xoxoKatie 4 hours ago
TinaDarling24 posted a comment on Day 192
You always have something to add! I like to blog away about absolutely nothing, it’s like a sport! 💕💕💕😂🍞 4 hours ago
DamYankee posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
Hi Stormy, I'm so sorry to hear this news. I well remember the difficulties you faced with your mum's situation, enough to take a toll on anyone (and those sibl... 4 hours ago
Cathy_1 posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
Dear Stormy, been a long time since we spoke, but I just saw your blog and felt that I would like to just send my condolences. You sound dreadfully alone, and I... 4 hours ago
DamYankee posted a comment on FOUR YEARS TODAY.. and You Raise Me Up... to more than I can be.
A beautiful blog, and warmest congratulations to you on your four splendid years. Sobriety really does become effortless like you say, although back around my D... 4 hours ago
kula posted a comment on Check in D6
Thank you for your kind words. I just figured out what Koko stands for... I like that🌺🌺🌺 15 minutes ago
rachel31 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 17 minutes ago
scruffyterrier has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations WoHeLo 🎉🎉🎉🎂🎂🎂 34 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Check in D6
Hi Lilly,Congratulations on day 6! Thats great. Keep it up. 💕💗💕Cathrine 37 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Day 80 ! And a trigger I did not see coming .
Hi GIAG,Good self awareness around the trigger. Those can really set you back on your heels. You done good!!!Thank goodness your fur baby is going to be ok. Tho... 44 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on Sober Superpowers Engage
Safe travels. Thank you for sharing the beautiful music. Sending thoughts of strength and health. 50 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Grieving but afraid of drinking
Hi Stormy,I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mother. The thought of you not having someone with you concerns me. Im not sure what labour party comrades are but c... 51 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on Vince Neil
Ha ha ha, New! Kickstart my heart, indeed. 🎶He's beautiful. x 54 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on What a difference a year makes
Beautiful photos and you look so wonderful in the 'after'. Just glowing with health. Thank you for sharing these. 57 minutes ago
BreathRun posted a comment on Check in D6
Great job, Lilly. Keep going. Hangover free Mondays feel SO good. x 1 hour ago



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