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peace has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Therese, my heart goes out to your 14-year-old granddaughter...oh,my, what a difficult age for any girl. I think the best prescription for her would be to spend... 12 minutes ago
Gingerbreadgirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Beaunic - I think it takes good week to 10 days to fully shake off the effects as one gets older. We underestimate this as we age. Are you drinking loads of wa... 17 minutes ago
peace has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
The heart-wrenching photos and info regarding the tragic death of Kobe Bryant and the others in the helicopter is everywhere and a fitting tribute to him, altho... 24 minutes ago
therese has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Dearest Petal of course you need some time to yourself and it's good to know that you have good support and feel strong yourself. Sending love and hugs.Oh wha... 25 minutes ago
Sheer posted a comment on And in the morning
You’ll never know whether or not it was the ‘right’ decision. It was the one made taking into consideration at the time everything you possibly could. Constantl... 27 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on A question of trust
Aerial yoga! I find getting my balance on a mat challenging enough. Go you ❤ 30 minutes ago
Mitsy posted a comment on Finally Committing
A big welcome Elle take one day at a time and be kind to yourself you can do this.take care a Mitsy xx 32 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Nearly!!!!
Sky rocketing admiration for you! What a situation to deal with, and you did it well. I echo ONWARDS AND UPWARDS ❤ 35 minutes ago
Pivoine posted a comment on 100 days this week
Faby, your courage and tenacity to turn things around and build yourself a different life is inspiring. Looking forward to celebrating your 100 days on the 100... 35 minutes ago
Sunnie posted a comment on Second time struggle
Welcome back , I think we can all relate one why or another the important thing is you are here now blog as much as you need xx 37 minutes ago
JuJu25 posted a comment on And in the morning
Hi MonajoanYou are doing amazingly well, being AF, getting up and into work. Don’t put yourself under any additional pressure. You need to be gentle on yourself... 39 minutes ago
Beaunic has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi everyoneDay 6 for me today, am so pleased I managed through the weekend. Major mental skirmishes with my cravings and virtually inhaled a bag of toffees la... 40 minutes ago
Running girl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Very quick quack on my swanky new phone from work. The old one never managed to pick up the 4 g. This could be dangerous! Sparkles sending you love and light at... 43 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Day 3 a day of r and r
Koko, big love ❤ 43 minutes ago
JuJu25 posted a comment on Second time struggle
HiIm also on my 2nd serious attempt. Managed 8 months about 2 yrs ago and like you thought I could then moderate. Went on holiday drank a couple of layers each... 43 minutes ago
Demeter has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Morning Sticks!Dóchas, sending hugs to you. Change is hard and it’s awful to feel lonely amongst friends. Looking forward to having a look at your blog, Bubble.... 45 minutes ago
Annabella has commented in the forum discussions 'Skinny Sista's'
Hi everyoneI dragged myself reluctantly to the gym this morning, but do feel better for it. And I paid a year's membership. I get 10 months for the price of 12... 48 minutes ago
TinaDarling24 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Happy Shark Monday all and super huge congrats to Namaste Strong! You guys make this team lead thing easy! 🥰🥰🥰Hooray for the Bon Jovi crew - Gingerbreadgirl, L... 50 minutes ago
Gingerbreadgirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Quick check on day 50. Nasty case of craving last night, but how awful would I have felt this morning if I'd caved on day 49? The misery of drinking has to reac... 57 minutes ago
Beaunic posted a comment on Second time struggle
Hi, I am also on my second attempt and on Day 6. I relapsed badly over the summer, tried to pull it together again and then Christmas and New Year was a disas... 1 hour ago
NinthLife posted a comment on Second time struggle
Hi! I was just about to post something very similar. I did 8 months without booze a couple of years ago and then of course, thinking I had it licked, I started... 1 hour ago
Sortyourselfout has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning all, QACI for me this morning, will catch up later. Had friends round for dinner yesterday and we had a lovely time. I didn't drink alcohol but did bu... 1 hour ago
JillyG has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning all. Quick one from me too. Congrats to Namaste today and the monthers 💪🎉🎉🎉. Char, I was sorry to hear about your MIL. Good that Hal was there though. D... 1 hour ago
Icarus12 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Woke up late, just how wonderful is that after 8 hours sleep, after years and years of not sleeping/thinking only alcohol would help me sleep, I am actually sle... 1 hour ago
Wildfire posted a comment on First love part 1
So many of us have been so very badly damaged .I think alcohol was our refuge, our warm internal hug until of course it just became yet another evil I our liv... 1 hour ago
Pivoine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Quickest of check-ins this morning. I will read back properly later. Big love to all. No alcohol for me. Ahh the freedom 1 hour ago
Leadgatelady has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
Eliza_95 posted a comment on First love part 1
Thank you for telling this part of your story , such a sad childhood 1 hour ago
3Bulls has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
So sorry about your MIL Sparkles. Condolences and love to you and Hal. 1 hour ago
Blackpoolbelle posted a comment on Lightbulb Moment - I am very lonely
Really interesting blog and one I can empathise with. I told my OH last week that I was actually quite lonely. I took voluntary redundancy almost 4 years ago, h... 1 hour ago
Wildfire posted a comment on Dealing with the Alcohol Brain Brat
Well done you .Whatever works especially in the early days . If you read quit lit then I can recomend The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober by Catherine Gray . Am... 1 hour ago
TheDuchess posted a comment on 240 Days!
Congratulations on 240 days Katie.Your sobriety is enviable. I love how you have remained serene even when life has thrown you curveballs. I empathise with how... 1 hour ago
Ali_191 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning all - not got a chance to catch up on the thread as I have a hellish week of work ahead with tax returns and disorganised clients...! I also am coming... 1 hour ago
Em_61 posted a comment on Desk pics - happiness is your own writing desk
Wonderful xCan't see the pic though. Looking forward to seeing it 🙂 1 hour ago
Petal has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Morning, just been watching the news Molls about Kobe Bryant. I must confess I had not heard of him but I can see how he was reverered, children on board too. H... 1 hour ago
Essexgirlgoessober has posted the blog Second time struggle
Hi EveryoneSo this is my second attempt at quitting alcohol. Back in the summer I nearly reached 100 days but a hen party saw me fall of the wagon. My drinkin... 1 hour ago
April_16 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Qaci -- All is well and AF. Had a fleeting moment romanticizing the notion of a glass of wine tonight as OH is not home (no one will know), but recognized/ackn... 1 hour ago
Essexgirlgoessober has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
Essexgirlgoessober has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
TheDuchess posted a comment on And in the morning
Monajoan; three suggestions:1. Try to reduce your activities at the moment. You are doing mini "geographicals" which are not giving you the time to address how... 1 hour ago
Susie57 has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Happy Monday lovelies,All good in my world. MRI was fine although I don’t expect any results until I see the consultant at the end of March - both my Jan and Fe... 2 hours ago
Lacerta has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Morning Ladies, oh so good to sleep in own bed. Cathy very cross on your behalf what an awful thing to happen. Re your Mothers ward it has a cousin in the Langl... 2 hours ago
April_16 posted a comment on And in the morning
You are working through a lot of grief, uncertainty and change. My heart goes out to you. xx. April 2 hours ago
Rayraysober posted a comment on Soul sickness and the January blues
Thank you so much my loves 💕 as always I’m blown away by your support. I will check out all your suggestions 🙏 I’m taking all the supplements, I’ve got 2 SAD la... 2 hours ago
BadgerPal has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QQ - just jumped on the slow train to London by mistake so more time to post 🤨Congrats to everyone on the boards! (It’s great to have things to celebrate this t... 2 hours ago
Nell posted a comment on Finally Committing
Welcome, Elle. Letting go of alcohol is letting yourself out of a prison whose bars you don’t see until you’re outside. You will never regret this. ❤️ 2 hours ago
April_16 posted a comment on 240 Days!
Congrats on your amazing 240 days Katie! Your are such an inspiration and I'm grateful for your presence on this site and uplifting posts. Onward!xx. April 2 hours ago
April_16 posted a comment on Finally Committing
Hi Elle! You can do this. All of what you mention above, well most of us have felt the same at some point. As you start these first days it's helpful to stay c... 2 hours ago
PoppyRainbow has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Oooh yes, nearly forgot .... supporting the message to everyone that other Istas have mentioned....Check in here at the very first sign of a wobble. Do not let... 2 hours ago
Dóchas has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Sparkles sending condolences to you and Hal. Your comments on grey kitty really moved me. Such attention to detail and care. I wouldn’t mind coming back as a ca... 2 hours ago
Fernandosclams has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
More later and love the flamingo Strawbs...saw the butterfly as well...like the style...here’s how January now feels 🤣 2 hours ago
bukelan has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Quick 🦆Getting my shark teeth in but they are quite little this morning. Nevertheless ready to attack the week!Congratulations to all on the boards : BabyO wow... 2 hours ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Strawbs....I saw that very same bird in the salt lakes just the other day.....I Love That Sketch soooooooo much!!!!!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 2 hours ago
Phil_Busby79 posted a comment on And in the morning
Take it easy and make sure you rest up. 😊 2 hours ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Good wonderful bloody Monday sober morning gang!!! I'm soooooo done with the Chinese new year!! Soy sauce is a sticky substance!!! So much to comment on...an... 2 hours ago
April_16 posted a comment on 100 days this week
Congratulations Faby on your upcoming 100 days. Thanks also for sharing this part of yourself. xx. April 2 hours ago
PoppyRainbow has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning lovelies, I just read back 7 pages just for yesterday! We’ve all been so busy .....TTC, it’s lovely that I’m a lucky one and have met you IRL and I can... 2 hours ago
Sue55 posted a comment on Dealing with the Alcohol Brain Brat
Well done for Day 5 AND for 19AF days in January. For me, it's spider solitaire! Though the auld lang syne pull must be a great temptation. Hang on in there!... 2 hours ago
Nell posted a comment on Desk pics - happiness is your own writing desk
I love that you got this. (Can’t see pic yet tho). One of the many wonderful gifts of sobriety is knowing your own mind, taking unilateral decisions because you... 2 hours ago
Soberangel posted a comment on Finally Committing
Good morning Elle, lovely to meet you and welcome to Soberistas. Do stay close and let us know how you are getting on.i promise that you will not regret this de... 2 hours ago
peace has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Therese, my heart goes out to your 14-year-old granddaughter...oh,my, what a difficult age for any girl. I think the best prescription for her would be to spend... 12 minutes ago
Gingerbreadgirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Beaunic - I think it takes good week to 10 days to fully shake off the effects as one gets older. We underestimate this as we age. Are you drinking loads of wa... 17 minutes ago
peace has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
The heart-wrenching photos and info regarding the tragic death of Kobe Bryant and the others in the helicopter is everywhere and a fitting tribute to him, altho... 24 minutes ago
therese has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Dearest Petal of course you need some time to yourself and it's good to know that you have good support and feel strong yourself. Sending love and hugs.Oh wha... 25 minutes ago
Sheer posted a comment on And in the morning
You’ll never know whether or not it was the ‘right’ decision. It was the one made taking into consideration at the time everything you possibly could. Constantl... 27 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on A question of trust
Aerial yoga! I find getting my balance on a mat challenging enough. Go you ❤ 30 minutes ago
Mitsy posted a comment on Finally Committing
A big welcome Elle take one day at a time and be kind to yourself you can do this.take care a Mitsy xx 32 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Nearly!!!!
Sky rocketing admiration for you! What a situation to deal with, and you did it well. I echo ONWARDS AND UPWARDS ❤ 35 minutes ago
Pivoine posted a comment on 100 days this week
Faby, your courage and tenacity to turn things around and build yourself a different life is inspiring. Looking forward to celebrating your 100 days on the 100... 35 minutes ago
Sunnie posted a comment on Second time struggle
Welcome back , I think we can all relate one why or another the important thing is you are here now blog as much as you need xx 37 minutes ago



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