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KittySweets posted a comment on Climb every mountain
Great blog 💕👊🏼 3 minutes ago
NewandWild has commented in the forum discussions OK so we don't drink, now what?
Great discussion, thankyou. As with the best of Soberistas stuff, it makes me feel less alone knowing others think and feel similar things! @Poppy - the bra sto... 6 minutes ago
Smoke posted a comment on AF. Always Fatigued?
Wow, Cat, it seems like the stress that is going on in your life could cause that fatigue. If your stress-coping tool kit was wine and chats with OH, then it wo... 13 minutes ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to the A Team! Maggie81 and Louper... Congratulations on Your Graduation!AnnaNova... Well Done on 50 Days. Thank You for posting the list ❤ and... 15 minutes ago
Lacerta has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Early MorningThe photos of Basil are just gorgeous puppies really are so adorable. Not long till the big day now She. Well ladies I am anchored up the river Dar... 31 minutes ago
2020vision posted a comment on Day 1
Hi Hopeful, I’m in exactly the same boat and day one for me too x 33 minutes ago
Stripeyslippers123 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Well that's day 58/100 done and dusted. It hasn't been the easiest day, I've felt a bit down, a bit stressed and not quite my self. However, I am in bed, sober... 38 minutes ago
Phil311217 posted a comment on Still need help
Hi SunflowerI am on Day 954 too. Happy sobriety to both of us. A virtual pat on the back. Great work. Rgds Phil 39 minutes ago
2020vision posted a comment on Day One - First Blog
Thank you everyone, I appreciate the words of encouragement xCurrently in bed with a fruit tea after keeping myself busy all evening! Good luck to those startin... 40 minutes ago
Monajoan posted a comment on Day 41 - Making My Way Back
Lots of positives here making the future bright. Lovely to read your blog at day 41! Yay 🎉💕 43 minutes ago
Caravanner has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Evening folks,hope you are all still on the wagon.Ive just finished reading Glorious Rock Bottom by Bryony Gordon. Another Quit Lit with a happy ending, at a st... 44 minutes ago
Sciencegirl posted a comment on Day 1 - hello again after 6 months
Big hug to you, that IVF rollercoaster is really very emotionally taxing. Thinking of you. While it isnt scientific, a plenty of heavy drinkers have no trouble... 52 minutes ago
Cathy_1 has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Sheer, try wrapping a clockwork clock in a towel, or similar, it can be soothing to the puppy to hear a “heartbeat”. Totally agree with the advice not to get up... 57 minutes ago
Candlestickmaker posted a comment on Learning weekend; had to blog about this 😅
Thank you lovely people xx such good advice, I will try the getaway phrase Vanessa xx the tea was fantastic xxCSMxx 1 hour ago
Bealtaine posted a comment on Still need help
Have u tried breath work sf? Can be helpful with a busy mind. 1 hour ago
Mattlowe75 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACIDay 2 done and dusted. Thankyou people for a great welcome back - it means a lot.I can't seem to drag music pics atm ( It just has a red circle and X and th... 1 hour ago
Smugde has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI 80 days AF, I can't believe it, me 80 days! the AF life gets better and better so if you are just starting out on your AF journey, good luck and I promise... 1 hour ago
SunflowerField posted a comment on Day 41 - Making My Way Back
Lots to celebrate and lots to look forward to 🤩❤xx 1 hour ago
Bealtaine posted a comment on Still need help
Lots of istas talk about supplements like St John's wort and 5htp for anxiety. I'm on ssri and it's helped my anxiety hugely but would love to be on supplements... 1 hour ago
Molls has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Hi Eliza, didn’t Cathy’s Helen and husband take advantage of that. Amirite Cathy.How lovely for you to meet up with Petal and Chris. What a joy. Who is Nottie (... 1 hour ago
Phoenix1313 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to the A team!!Special congrats to Louper and Maggie on 100 days and well done to the monthers!love Phoenixxxx 1 hour ago
AlysR has commented in the forum discussions August Together
Quick hello this evening from super hot Bristol. I’ve had a brilliant day. Met Flopsy Bunny this morning which was fab, shopping in Clifton this afternoon and a... 1 hour ago
Bealtaine posted a comment on AF. Always Fatigued?
I think it's linked to post acute withdrawal sober curious. Some supplements are talked about. Maybe some blood work but normally it shifts. It's a big change s... 1 hour ago
Zenlife1 posted a comment on Homebrew
That’s all you can do, unfortunately. Any advice given would be unlikely to be received well! You did the right thing 👌🏻 1 hour ago
DavinaN1 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Checking in, checking out,Another day done. I’m glad I checked in here and on What’s Ap today before craving got really bad. That’s something else I need to re... 1 hour ago
Sobutterfly has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Thanks so much for the warm welcome Enough and Pivoine! 🙏 1 hour ago
Snowdrop1 posted a comment on Still need help
Oh, SF, big hugs and huge congratulations on 954 days sober! You are working through your issues and this is a really good thing. It's raw and painful, yes, but... 1 hour ago
Enough has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Vespa, that is so sad. my heart is breaking for that poor girl. As is your story gifttome. What a destructive bloody awful thing alcohol is.Wotsit is lovely Pg.... 1 hour ago
Strawbs has commented in the forum discussions August Together
Dochas - me mum always used to say if there were 2 people on Druridge Bay, then it was crowded! 1 hour ago
Pivoine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Sobutterfly, welcome! thanks for sharing your story - it sounds like many of ours. You’re among friends here. We all get it. Well done on committing to 100 days... 1 hour ago
Lizzie1967 has commented in the forum discussions August Together
Fantastic photo Dochas!! 1 hour ago
Sobutterfly has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Thank you Lizzie! 💜 1 hour ago
Lizzie1967 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Welcome Sobutterfly. You've come to a good place xx 1 hour ago
Rainbowgirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to everyone on the boards and the stoners today.Still keeping on, eating my bodyweight in chocolate....x 1 hour ago
Petal posted a comment on A Very Proud Moment
I just loved reading this Rose . Fabulous, a really big well done . Petal xx 1 hour ago
despicableme posted a comment on The Quietude
I’ve bought a labelgun and it has really helped me get organized which has calmed the mental monkeys! As I type this, I just took a break from my sons’ bathroom... 1 hour ago
Snowdrop1 posted a comment on The Quietude
Perfectionism is exhausting. But I do like getting things done. I like completing things. Though I have to catch myself on and remember to cherish those achieve... 1 hour ago
Sobutterfly has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I Sobutterfly do hereby give my word, that I do now make aSolemn binding pledge, that I will reject alcohol inAll its guises. I join this crusade and my initial... 1 hour ago
Sobutterfly has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi, im a 51 year old mother of two teen girls. Been drinking since age 13. While I don’t binge drink every time i drink, It’s happened a concerning number of ti... 1 hour ago
Saffy565 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
#nothreadguilt# forgot to check in this morning. Read back 6 pages. Big congrats to Louper and Maggie on 100 days AF.Took advantage of the Eat Out To Help... 1 hour ago
Snowdrop1 has posted the blog Homebrew
My friend posted a picture of 24 bottles of home-brewed wine today on her social media, calling it 24 bottles of 'coping mechanism' (wink, wink, smiley face). T... 1 hour ago
Vanessa_3 posted a comment on Still need help
Oh sweetheart... 😢❤️Big hugs. It’s horrible, feeling sad and anxious and depressed and with a hole and ungrounded and all these uncomfortable and difficult thin... 1 hour ago
Petal posted a comment on Learning weekend; had to blog about this 😅
CSM, that was a weekend and half! I think you should give yourself a huge pat on the back for how you handled all those situations. I would have been quite a bi... 1 hour ago
KittySweets posted a comment on Climb every mountain
Great blog 💕👊🏼 3 minutes ago
NewandWild has commented in the forum discussions OK so we don't drink, now what?
Great discussion, thankyou. As with the best of Soberistas stuff, it makes me feel less alone knowing others think and feel similar things! @Poppy - the bra sto... 6 minutes ago
Smoke posted a comment on AF. Always Fatigued?
Wow, Cat, it seems like the stress that is going on in your life could cause that fatigue. If your stress-coping tool kit was wine and chats with OH, then it wo... 13 minutes ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to the A Team! Maggie81 and Louper... Congratulations on Your Graduation!AnnaNova... Well Done on 50 Days. Thank You for posting the list ❤ and... 15 minutes ago
Lacerta has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Early MorningThe photos of Basil are just gorgeous puppies really are so adorable. Not long till the big day now She. Well ladies I am anchored up the river Dar... 31 minutes ago
2020vision posted a comment on Day 1
Hi Hopeful, I’m in exactly the same boat and day one for me too x 33 minutes ago
Stripeyslippers123 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Well that's day 58/100 done and dusted. It hasn't been the easiest day, I've felt a bit down, a bit stressed and not quite my self. However, I am in bed, sober... 38 minutes ago
Phil311217 posted a comment on Still need help
Hi SunflowerI am on Day 954 too. Happy sobriety to both of us. A virtual pat on the back. Great work. Rgds Phil 39 minutes ago
2020vision posted a comment on Day One - First Blog
Thank you everyone, I appreciate the words of encouragement xCurrently in bed with a fruit tea after keeping myself busy all evening! Good luck to those startin... 40 minutes ago
Monajoan posted a comment on Day 41 - Making My Way Back
Lots of positives here making the future bright. Lovely to read your blog at day 41! Yay 🎉💕 43 minutes ago



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