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Sciencegirl posted a comment on Nearly
you know a good cry might be really helpful. Maybe put on a movie that you know will make you cry (Beaches? the bridges of Madison county?) and have a good old... 1 minute ago
Screenjean posted a comment on Restarting
I'm in kind of the same place. I had 260 or so AF days when I fell off the AF wagon, and since then I've been back to 10, 15, 30....then drank again. I know... 2 minutes ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions Bullet Journaling
LCN, i have serious Pen/ holder envy! Those are Beautiful!! I like Your kitty on the Moon. 2 of my Favorites. QB, I watched a video where the woman put colored... 7 minutes ago
Screenjean posted a comment on Day 1 (Again)
I think it's a huge advantage knowing that you stopped once before (for 18 months!). You can absolutely do it again! Please bog about the experience of going... 15 minutes ago
katy posted a comment on "Scary" sobriety
I so completely relate to this! thank you for writing this screenjean I’m glad you’re not afraid anymore 20 minutes ago
Debbie1954 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI. #nothreadguilt. Fab Panda 🐼 day. Great certs AnnaNova. Congratulations to my teammates. Also great monthersI’ll catch up properly tomorrow Debbie xx 22 minutes ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good Day to All You Amazing Istas,Took a road trip yesterday. Over the hill. Decided to get a little bit of Christmas shopping in just in case we get a lock dow... 22 minutes ago
GeeMee12 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Well done coming straight back ClaireAnne. It’s not easy but you will make it work.Congratulations to the Pandas and monthers. Gx 33 minutes ago
jj45 posted a comment on Nearly
You will be ok. This is so hard on you, though. This sounds like a red flag. It would be understandable for you to drink but I hope you stay AF.❤️❤️. This sound... 51 minutes ago
mutt196 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI - I want to say a big old well done to all my fellow Pandas on hitting another 10 big ones. Woop woopI AM BACK ON THE BOARDS. woooooo hoooooo..... Bring... 1 hour ago
Dawn77 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Quick check in on my lunch break. Day 7 for me, I was really craving wine last night, but I am not going to drink. Take care everyone 1 hour ago
Joy6323 posted a comment on Loneliness
It was the alcohol that made you choose to be alone.if alcohol is not in your life I would hope you soon get the invites again and reconnect with people again.... 1 hour ago
AnnaNova has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
HiHiTeaforever, good to see you back here! Also welcome (back) kitchenninja, JonahJones, Ecrivaine, EllaP and ClaireAnne. You can do this. Stay close, reach out... 1 hour ago
Joy6323 posted a comment on A reply to Struggling
Hope, you got me blubbing here, been trying to keep it together but think I needed to read your words. 1 hour ago
Joy6323 has posted the blog Nearly
I had to go to shops this evening to buy some food, driving there I thought about buying wine, going round the aisles, I thought even the small 1 glass bottles.... 1 hour ago
mutt196 has commented in the forum discussions My partner drinks and it's a problem
New - you made me laugh on both counts. Yep the paradox of male and female partnership - women's determination to grow versus men's determination to remain sta... 1 hour ago
Soberista has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
❤   Please post Day 1 resets and new pledges as the first line in your post ❤   Please email me at sean@soberistas.com or PM your Team Leader if there are any e... 1 hour ago
carrie_19 posted a comment on A reply to Struggling
Thank you hope for your kindness and understanding, Carrie x 1 hour ago
Ali_154 posted a comment on Today, this happened...
Ahh Mandy that's lovely. Congratulations!! xx 2 hours ago
Icarus12 has commented in the forum discussions OK so we don't drink, now what?
Like SD, I’m relishing some time to catch up here today, so much to read and I’ll join in with Faby and Vespa and jus say how much I ❤️ this thread, just feels... 2 hours ago
bellina62 has posted the blog When Will the Voice Ever Stop?
I’ve seen this question raised recently, and I used to despair for myself sometimes - would I ever stop encountering urges? As the days ticked by for me I becam... 2 hours ago
Teatotal has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Checking in to say hi to everyone and its day 15 for me. Mr Jones your posts are hysterical and really make me smile. Love the pandas they are so cute and its a... 2 hours ago
Blackpoolbelle posted a comment on 2 months today
Fantastic achievement, well done! X 2 hours ago
nyaliv has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good morning check-in! Day 13/100. Feeling excellent today. Had a wonderful morning meditation, a new brisk walk with my puppy, and will soon be joining my sis... 2 hours ago
ArchangelMichael has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hello all, congratulations to all still on this AF journey. This is my goodbye for now, personal reasons. I’m not drinking at all, no worries. Wish you all bles... 2 hours ago
Cup cake has posted the blog Lonliness
For as long as I can remember alcohol was my priority...how long until I got home from work & could curl up with wine, I refused so many invites that people... 3 hours ago
Screenjean has posted the blog "Scary" sobriety
This morning I was thinking back to a session a few years ago with my therapist, when I told her that the thought of a life without alcohol filled me with a sen... 3 hours ago
LeChatNoir posted a comment on 100 days; an experiment; a question
This is something I struggle with myself, I'm 69/100 on my first try and really enjoying the community's support. But at the onset of the challenge and even no... 3 hours ago
Icarus12 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Happy Saturday and happy Panda 🐼 day, congratulations to all my fellow 🐼 and all the Milestoners today 🎊🎊Especially well done to our four 10 dayers Sunshine123,... 3 hours ago
Ravenswick posted a comment on Today, this happened...
Gorgeous 💕 3 hours ago
Hope123 has posted the blog A reply to Struggling
I decided that I would write this as an open blog rather than just a personal response to Carrie as I know there are other people in the group who may be strugg... 3 hours ago
JD7 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Day 13. Feeling great. Happy Saturday everyone. No alcohol for me today x 3 hours ago
Mylove posted a comment on The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love them.
Hi Samira,Congrats on day 12. I can see by your mindset that you are determined to be sober.The tips are useful, especially this time of year.I love Nosecco and... 3 hours ago
MaeveD has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
61 days today! 🎉. I stopped drinking on 10/5, my late grandmothers birthday. I used that day because she and I were very close. She never had a drop of alcohol... 4 hours ago
Mylove posted a comment on Today, this happened...
Congratulations. Your daughter thinks you’re pretty special too x 4 hours ago
Mylove posted a comment on Coming Home To Myself
Ho Ali,You’ve got some great ideals for moving forward there.You’ve been through a very confusing time and you do need some ‘emotional safety’.Don’t think I wou... 4 hours ago
Sheer posted a comment on Today, this happened...
There are quite a few of us on here who started our AF life round about this time of year which would appear counterintuitive but seems to have worked well!Huge... 4 hours ago
HereForHelp has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
20/100Happy Pandas Day! AnnaNova - wow, what a cake! Hope you all have a lovely Saturday. I will not drink today. Peace and love to you all x 4 hours ago
Bumblebee84 posted a comment on Today, this happened...
Amazing Mandy!! Good on you!!! 😘 xxx 4 hours ago
Snowdrop0121 posted a comment on Coming Home To Myself
Really interesting read and I do remember that advert too :o). Pleased your life seems to be back on track and your thought processes are working better. Feeli... 4 hours ago
TheAmazingGracie has posted the blog 100 days; an experiment; a question
This is my first blog, which is a big deal for me as I have never posted on social media before Soberistas. One week ago I reached my 100 day target, and felt p... 4 hours ago
MaeveD has posted the blog 2 months today
I made it 2 months AF!🎉. Back in October I didn’t see how that was going to be possible. Today, I feel like time has flown. I feel stronger and more confident e... 4 hours ago
Snowdrop0121 posted a comment on Day 1 (Part 2)
Sobriety for yourself is not at all selfish. I think it needs to start there to allow everything else to fall into place. Put it another way.. no amount of na... 4 hours ago
SelenaMaria has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 4 hours ago
LeChatNoir has commented in the forum discussions Bullet Journaling
Morning! Thought I'd share a post I saw last night with some inspiration for mood trackers (which may be helpful for us as we navigate our AF journey) and a hab... 5 hours ago
Zoers442 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 5 hours ago
Jazzabelle posted a comment on The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love them.
Absolutely! It's your decision, nobody else's, and no-one else is living in your head, living your choices. I like this realisation that it does not matter what... 5 hours ago
takingmylifeback posted a comment on Today, this happened...
Oh that’s wonderful to read Mandy - thank you for sharing it with us love xxx 5 hours ago
Jazzabelle posted a comment on Today, this happened...
Wonderful ❤️❤️❤️ 5 hours ago
LeChatNoir has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning All! Another glorious Saturday morning hang-over free! Its rainy and stormy here this morning but super cozy and comforting in my house with the Chris... 5 hours ago
Thisisme36 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Happy sober Saturday one and all. Well done to panda's people and the monthers. I'm 5 months AF today, woop! Longest stretch outside pregnancies since I was 18,... 5 hours ago
EllaP has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi, this is my first post on here for a while. Ive missed this thread so much and am hoping you will have me back. I am sick of all the back and forth with my d... 5 hours ago
Queen Bee has commented in the forum discussions Bullet Journaling
Dawn - I love that layout! I also really like the 'grateful' box - I think I will include that in mine. LeChat - I already have a note in my journal to look up... 5 hours ago
Queen Bee has commented in the forum discussions Bullet Journaling
Tates - I have always liked the Moleskin journals because the paper is so nice, they have the elastic band that I now know also can hold my pen 🤗they come in ha... 5 hours ago
Sciencegirl posted a comment on Nearly
you know a good cry might be really helpful. Maybe put on a movie that you know will make you cry (Beaches? the bridges of Madison county?) and have a good old... 1 minute ago
Screenjean posted a comment on Restarting
I'm in kind of the same place. I had 260 or so AF days when I fell off the AF wagon, and since then I've been back to 10, 15, 30....then drank again. I know... 2 minutes ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions Bullet Journaling
LCN, i have serious Pen/ holder envy! Those are Beautiful!! I like Your kitty on the Moon. 2 of my Favorites. QB, I watched a video where the woman put colored... 7 minutes ago
Screenjean posted a comment on Day 1 (Again)
I think it's a huge advantage knowing that you stopped once before (for 18 months!). You can absolutely do it again! Please bog about the experience of going... 15 minutes ago
katy posted a comment on "Scary" sobriety
I so completely relate to this! thank you for writing this screenjean I’m glad you’re not afraid anymore 20 minutes ago
Debbie1954 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI. #nothreadguilt. Fab Panda 🐼 day. Great certs AnnaNova. Congratulations to my teammates. Also great monthersI’ll catch up properly tomorrow Debbie xx 22 minutes ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good Day to All You Amazing Istas,Took a road trip yesterday. Over the hill. Decided to get a little bit of Christmas shopping in just in case we get a lock dow... 22 minutes ago
GeeMee12 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Well done coming straight back ClaireAnne. It’s not easy but you will make it work.Congratulations to the Pandas and monthers. Gx 33 minutes ago
jj45 posted a comment on Nearly
You will be ok. This is so hard on you, though. This sounds like a red flag. It would be understandable for you to drink but I hope you stay AF.❤️❤️. This sound... 51 minutes ago
mutt196 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI - I want to say a big old well done to all my fellow Pandas on hitting another 10 big ones. Woop woopI AM BACK ON THE BOARDS. woooooo hoooooo..... Bring... 1 hour ago



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