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Nell posted a comment on Let it be easy
Julia what a phenomenally great blog! Thank you, it’s bookmarked, go big or go home (something I am prone to feeling) can go do one. And btw, I am waiting to he... 11 minutes ago
Molls has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Petal, you poor thing. Is your other brother still there? I understand you wanting to back off for a while. I internalize other people’s problems at times, when... 14 minutes ago
Coccinelle time posted a comment on Second time struggle
Hi, I did 10 months, lapsed in the Summer, got back on my AF life, lapsed again in November, got back on it again and it has been HARD, so hard. Harder than the... 22 minutes ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
The pool! 26 minutes ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
The upside down view from the front! 🙃🙃🙃 27 minutes ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
The view of our little pool from the balcony in our boudoir! 29 minutes ago
Teresa_22 posted a comment on Last Day 1, First Day of My New Life
Welcome! 30 minutes ago
GoingTowardsTheLight posted a comment on I'm back
Yes. It took me waayyyy to long to learn I can't moderate and it's exhausting and STUPID to even try. I have no desire to drink anymore yet I totally FEAR the m... 30 minutes ago
ttsamous posted a comment on Finally Committing
Welcome! Tons of us have the very same background...party girl and all that accompanies it. All I can say is just give sobriety a try. You can always return to... 34 minutes ago
GoingTowardsTheLight posted a comment on Last Day 1, First Day of My New Life
Oh YAY! you can do it! congratulations 34 minutes ago
Margaret41 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Welcome back Pooh and seeking serenity!I’m half goldfish half kitten today....but all shark by appearances 😬😁 34 minutes ago
GoingTowardsTheLight posted a comment on Stitching Your Brain Back Together
Thanks Bellina. I finished "The unexpected joys of being sober" this weekend. Gray has a fantastic chapter on brain repair that clicked with me. The used and u... 36 minutes ago
Demeter posted a comment on Stop non-living and reveal the pink clouds
Beautiful Bubble, I'm so happy for you Xxx 41 minutes ago
Tray74 posted a comment on First Love part 2
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Emwaromida has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hello everyone, Namaste strong Team & month makers congratulations to you all amazing. 🎉🎉😊😊🌟🌟😊😊🌟🌟🎉🎉Big warm welcome to the new & returning members stay... 46 minutes ago
Lassie_2 posted a comment on 240 Days!
Well done Angel xx 55 minutes ago
SeekingSerenity69 posted a comment on Stitching Your Brain Back Together
Thank you for this, Bellina. I REALLY needed to read this today!!! I feel I have lost my intellect and definitely my creativity. I am excited about it coming... 57 minutes ago
Sally72 posted a comment on It’s trigger day!! But guess who’s ready !!
It’s so true !! There’s so much more I could do with my time but am totally busy every other day weekends grown up mum of three with 2 grandaughters husband and... 1 hour ago
Pooh49 posted a comment on It’s trigger day!! But guess who’s ready !!
Boredom is one of my triggers. I started learning to play musical instrument, have a LEGO set I’m assembling, and a book I’m enjoying. It’s time I put on my big... 1 hour ago
ttsamous posted a comment on And in the morning
Monajoan, minute to minute, breath to breath. If you can, keep a journal of why you made this decision, how you have been feeling and pour your heart out. It is... 1 hour ago
Lady_F has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Quickie to let you all know that Annie Grace’s The Naked Mind is on todays daily deal on amazon and a steal at £0.99! 1 hour ago
Pooh49 posted a comment on I'm back
Thank you all. Sally72, Thinking of you!Margaret41, perhaps that’s a turning point. Moving from knowing I can’t moderate, to not even wanting to. 1 hour ago
Nony posted a comment on Let it be easy
Just what I needed to read this morning! Thank you! Bookmarked! ❤ 1 hour ago
Kaivalya has posted in the forum discussions Day 6
Got through the weekend. Not bad. I have removed all alcohol from the house and that really helps. I did have thoughts about drinking and wonder if there was an... 1 hour ago
Sciencegirl posted a comment on First Love part 2
Something that comes back to us sober is our intuitoin. You knew this was dangerous. I bet, somewhere on the other end of this, your first love is relieved that... 1 hour ago
McL has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Morning all. I’m here and reading back some but not really in a good place at the moment. This will pass I know and I’m so glad that I have this forum and you... 1 hour ago
Sciencegirl posted a comment on The feels 😔
I dont think he is going to be a bit of a prick Phil, i think he is going to be a great bloke! Because you already are a great bloke. 1 hour ago
Em_61 posted a comment on Let it be easy
Bookmarked! Thank you Julia 1 hour ago
bellina62 has posted the blog Stitching Your Brain Back Together
There are many, many benefits to sobriety, but one which has taken some time to come for me is the realization that I don’t actually have brain damage after all... 1 hour ago
Cathrine posted a comment on And in the morning
Sending love Monajoan, Take extra care.If you do lose your shit, teens will certainly be the ones who get it. ❤💕💗💕Cathrine 1 hour ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Dealing with the Alcohol Brain Brat
Great blog Jean!Whatever works.Congratulations on day 19.💕💗💕Cathrine 2 hours ago
Sally72 posted a comment on I am not ashamed
Wow you summed it up perfectly! we are all worth so much more and we achieve so much in our life’s until that crap comes into play love your honesty !! I’m goin... 2 hours ago
Phil_Busby79 has posted the blog The feels 😔
Hi everyone. Blogging from my bed today because I've come home from work early feeling like crap. Hopefully it's just a 48hr thing so won't be too bad. I want t... 2 hours ago
Sally72 has posted the blog It’s trigger day!! But guess who’s ready !!
Day 4 and finished work that’s my trigger being at home on my own as silly as it sounds!!it does stem from an abusive first marriage the fallout from that and t... 2 hours ago
Cathrine posted a comment on 240 Days!
Hi Katie, You sound so healthy and strong in your AF life. 240 days! Way to go. I have a feeling that if somthing threatens your sobriety...🤺🤺🤺!!!🤭 you got this... 2 hours ago
PoppyRainbow has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Hello lovely sticks,I've taken to catching up with you at lunchtime during the working week, it enforces me to look away from the email, you make me smile and l... 2 hours ago
SeekingSerenity69 posted a comment on First Love part 2
What a beautiful blog!! You are a person of true integrity!! 2 hours ago
Cathrine posted a comment on It's so late, I am so tired... Can't sleep for crying...
Hi Monajoan, Grieving and uncertainty is a natural part of separating your lives. There were many good times in those 25 years, I'm sure. Allow yourself the ti... 2 hours ago
SeekingSerenity69 has posted the blog Last Day 1, First Day of My New Life
This it is. I KNOW this is it. Good-bye alcohol. Best, healthiest self, I can hardly wait to meet you!!! 2 hours ago
Sally72 posted a comment on I'm back
It’s the same with me .... it’s taken me years to realise I can’t moderate no matter how hard I try ... that ship sailed many years ago. you can do it missy tod... 2 hours ago
Vanessa_3 posted a comment on First Love part 2
Oh NELL!!! 😢😢😢I am so, so proud of you. Your wise, sober, older self has had the intelligence and self-discipline to shut this down now before it becomes what i... 2 hours ago
Claree posted a comment on First Love part 2
You are an amazing, wonderful woman. How strong you are. Thank you for sharing your story, and yes, I do believe you would have threatened your marriage if you... 2 hours ago
McEhh has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hey Nameste Strong! So much awesomeness packed into your team. And how about you monthers too! Yahoo!!Monday morning here. I just finished pushing a long b... 2 hours ago
SeekingSerenity69 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I, SeekingSerenity69, do hereby give my word, that I do now make aSolemn binding pledge, that I will reject alcohol inAll its guises. I join this crusade and my... 2 hours ago
McEhh has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Faithfaery… On sugar.  Isn’t it true?  For sure the primary goal for all of us is remaining AF and if reaching for the chocolates is what works, we gotta do it!... 2 hours ago
Jazzabelle posted a comment on First Love part 2
Dear Nell, very brave lady that you are. Thank you for sharing your story. My heart goes out to you but also my hands in the shape of two big thumbs up and a bi... 2 hours ago
Retiredandlovingit posted a comment on I'm back
Good girl, come on down. One day, just take it one day at a time.RALI 2 hours ago
Misterlomax has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 2 hours ago
Nell posted a comment on Let it be easy
Julia what a phenomenally great blog! Thank you, it’s bookmarked, go big or go home (something I am prone to feeling) can go do one. And btw, I am waiting to he... 11 minutes ago
Molls has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Petal, you poor thing. Is your other brother still there? I understand you wanting to back off for a while. I internalize other people’s problems at times, when... 14 minutes ago
Coccinelle time posted a comment on Second time struggle
Hi, I did 10 months, lapsed in the Summer, got back on my AF life, lapsed again in November, got back on it again and it has been HARD, so hard. Harder than the... 22 minutes ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
The pool! 26 minutes ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
The upside down view from the front! 🙃🙃🙃 27 minutes ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
The view of our little pool from the balcony in our boudoir! 29 minutes ago
Teresa_22 posted a comment on Last Day 1, First Day of My New Life
Welcome! 30 minutes ago
GoingTowardsTheLight posted a comment on I'm back
Yes. It took me waayyyy to long to learn I can't moderate and it's exhausting and STUPID to even try. I have no desire to drink anymore yet I totally FEAR the m... 30 minutes ago
ttsamous posted a comment on Finally Committing
Welcome! Tons of us have the very same background...party girl and all that accompanies it. All I can say is just give sobriety a try. You can always return to... 34 minutes ago
GoingTowardsTheLight posted a comment on Last Day 1, First Day of My New Life
Oh YAY! you can do it! congratulations 34 minutes ago



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