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KeepStrong has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Fantastic Panda board as always! Happy graduation day to Rebecca and Mary! 100 glorious AF days. Amazing 300 Icarus!Welcome SausageDog! This truly is a great pl... 5 minutes ago
Emwaromida has commented in the forum discussions May Flowers
Hello everyone, Wren 🎉😊🎉& Month makers 🎉😊🌟🎉congratulations for yesterday. XRachel 🎉🐼🎉Kim🎉🐼🎉Lubbie 🎉🐼🎉& Vespa 🎉🐼🎉 fab . XShywolf 2 years off freedom amaz... 18 minutes ago
mutt196 posted a comment on If I can, you can
Thankyou for sharing. It is this kind of blog that you read when you are feeling a bit 'meh' and suddenly your heart sings and you know so far within that this... 20 minutes ago
Sandra_40 posted a comment on If I can, you can
So good to read your blog - it's positive and inspiring. I'm on Day 332 today and very happy to be here 😊 Xx 29 minutes ago
Sandra_40 posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Congratulations on your 300 days! I'm on day 332 today and I identify with so much of what you've written. Well done and keep going 😊 X 34 minutes ago
calmseas has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI- The WW decided to visit in the afternoon and on the way home from work yesterday-- I'm noticing that one of my biggest triggers is feeling like I want to... 35 minutes ago
Escoffier has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Love the wedding outfit Molls. I bet it will look great in pictures. Have a fun visit with your son Peace. I saw the unicorn costume on facebook. Its very cute... 35 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Hi Icarus,Massive Congratulations to you on 300 days! Your description of your life now sounds wonderful. It really is such an amazing turn around. I'm happy t... 41 minutes ago
TinaDarling24 posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Congrats 🥳! 51 minutes ago
BreathRun has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi SausageDog. Welcome! You can post as often as you wish. Recently we had a bit of a discussion on the thread about the huge benefits of at least checking in o... 54 minutes ago
Island has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Oooooooo! It's Panda day!Congratulations to you all, especially my fellow NY pledgers. I think there about 9 (or possibly more) of us to start with and still 4... 55 minutes ago
SoberWings posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Thank you for this...when I read stories like this from fellow members, days racked up, the urge to be up there too amongst the great here strengthens and stren... 1 hour ago
BreathRun posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Icarus, what a wonderful blog! Huge congratulations on reaching 300 AF days. You describe the benefits so beautifully. Wishing you a wonderful day, filled with... 1 hour ago
SausageDog has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I SausageDog, do hereby give my word, that I do now make a Solemn binding pledge, that I will reject alcohol in All its guises. I join this crusade and my init... 1 hour ago
SoberWings posted a comment on Day 7 - commitment
'In my case remembering that just because I feel better and haven't had a hangover for a while that doesn't mean problem solved and I'll be ok to have a drink o... 1 hour ago
SoberWings posted a comment on Yay to day five
Well done! I'm on day 2 and about an hour ago I had some fleeting thoughts on drinking. But put those well out of reach soon enough.Waking up tomorrow clear hea... 1 hour ago
SoberWings posted a comment on Day 62
Great job on staying strong...one glass will never be just the one, and the hangover the next morning will never be worth caving in. 62 days is amazing, I'm det... 1 hour ago
SoberWings posted a comment on Owning it...
Yep own it over and over again. I'm on Day 2 and looking forward to hearing more from you and your journey :) 1 hour ago
BreathRun has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hey! It's Panda Day! Celebrating Mary and Rebecca on 100 AF days! 🎊🥳 Icarus, huge congratulations on your 300 AF days. I hope you're able to get out for your... 1 hour ago
SoberWings posted a comment on If I can, you can
Wow, what a story! Nothing short of complete admiration for you and your ongoing jorney! Well done :) 1 hour ago
McEhh has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good morning Ista's and SoBro'sI just looked up and saw a hummingbird at the feeder. I always think of think of them as healing so I looked up their meaning;"H... 1 hour ago
SoberWings posted a comment on Word to myself....Stop messing around!
Thank you all..yep Duchess, I need to get my arse into gear and do this! Bunnyhug that was a great post by Lucy. It really is commitment over motivation! 1 hour ago
Em_61 posted a comment on If I can, you can
Thank you and a massive well done.x 1 hour ago
Ruthy83 posted a comment on Owning it...
Really related to this Sarah, thanks for putting it so well and can't wait to follow your blogs X 1 hour ago
Icarus12 posted a comment on If I can, you can
Congratulations on your year and thank you for being such an inspiration and support ❤️😘 1 hour ago
Ruthy83 posted a comment on Interesting Week
I'm tempted to get those words tattooed on my forearm: 'trying to stay somewhat sane and not drinking no matter what' are words to live by. What a week, wishing... 1 hour ago
Ann_497 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Day 6 quick check-in before work. I'll catch up later. 1 hour ago
Icarus12 has posted the blog 300 days of gratitude
Today I reach 300 days AF and I couldn’t be happier about it. 💃If anyone had told me back at the beginning of August when I was sick, shaking and scared that I... 1 hour ago
Ruthy83 posted a comment on If I can, you can
Wonderful and inspiring blog, thank you so much and many many congratulations on your recovery. 1 hour ago
Ruthy83 has posted the blog What's different this time
I wasn't sure what I was going to write today. It feels a bit weird to blog every day because this AF attempt feels different to other 'day 1s' I've had in the... 1 hour ago
Desert Rose has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Thank you Funch. There was so nearly only 3 of you hitting this milestone today! what a beautiful rose xxx 1 hour ago
NewandWild has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Wow @Wander - i love that passage about clearing. I look around my house and see so much crap and I need to think about that - do I feel safe? Things do still f... 1 hour ago
Nana Treen posted a comment on Day 4 for me
Well done Freckles. The thing is that you enjoy every single sober day as it comes and don't project yourself into the future when you're ..... 4 years sober?... 1 hour ago
peace has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
All this talk of visiting and the new rules has got me thinking of you, Eliza, with darling Elsie & all stuck in China. I try not to bring it up too often,... 1 hour ago
Mary28 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I Mary 28 do hereby give my word, that I do now make aSolemn binding pledge, that I will reject alcohol inAll its guises. I join this crusade and my initialtarg... 1 hour ago
funch has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Desert rose that was a great post, thank you for sharing and huge congratulations on swerving the booze at such a risky trigger point. Here is the first rose in... 1 hour ago
Nana Treen posted a comment on Learning a lot about myself, still up and down but 40 days today so feeling grateful 💝🤗🎉
Hi CSM, and big congrats on 40 days. There's something about 40 days - Jesus fasted in the desert for 40 days (and nights), there are 40 days in Lent, life beg... 1 hour ago
WoHeLo has commented in the forum discussions 'Skinny Sista's'
Way to go MCL on two months AF!! 💪💪 Great suggestion by AF on getting some bands if weights not available or maybe find a you tube that uses your body weight.... 2 hours ago
Tray74 posted a comment on If I can, you can
Powerful and honest, just like all of your comments. Congrats to you! What a transformation 💕 2 hours ago
JillyG has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Oh I think we've had crossed wires a bit on here about Sean/Lucy 😂. Miss SC I'm sorry you drank to.....limiting your drinking as you described is moderation and... 2 hours ago
Margaret41 has commented in the forum discussions May Flowers
Good morning lovelies!-Mamie, did we miss your three year soberversary? Let us know because we need to properly celebrate!!-Sparkles, what a wonderful post! T... 2 hours ago
Wander_Mom has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hey Miss_SC- I absolutely get why you’re asking this question. I’ve asked myself this same question from time to time..can’t I just have a few blowouts? Just to... 2 hours ago
KeepStrong has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Fantastic Panda board as always! Happy graduation day to Rebecca and Mary! 100 glorious AF days. Amazing 300 Icarus!Welcome SausageDog! This truly is a great pl... 5 minutes ago
Emwaromida has commented in the forum discussions May Flowers
Hello everyone, Wren 🎉😊🎉& Month makers 🎉😊🌟🎉congratulations for yesterday. XRachel 🎉🐼🎉Kim🎉🐼🎉Lubbie 🎉🐼🎉& Vespa 🎉🐼🎉 fab . XShywolf 2 years off freedom amaz... 18 minutes ago
mutt196 posted a comment on If I can, you can
Thankyou for sharing. It is this kind of blog that you read when you are feeling a bit 'meh' and suddenly your heart sings and you know so far within that this... 20 minutes ago
Sandra_40 posted a comment on If I can, you can
So good to read your blog - it's positive and inspiring. I'm on Day 332 today and very happy to be here 😊 Xx 29 minutes ago
Sandra_40 posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Congratulations on your 300 days! I'm on day 332 today and I identify with so much of what you've written. Well done and keep going 😊 X 34 minutes ago
calmseas has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI- The WW decided to visit in the afternoon and on the way home from work yesterday-- I'm noticing that one of my biggest triggers is feeling like I want to... 35 minutes ago
Escoffier has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Love the wedding outfit Molls. I bet it will look great in pictures. Have a fun visit with your son Peace. I saw the unicorn costume on facebook. Its very cute... 35 minutes ago
Cathrine posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Hi Icarus,Massive Congratulations to you on 300 days! Your description of your life now sounds wonderful. It really is such an amazing turn around. I'm happy t... 41 minutes ago
TinaDarling24 posted a comment on 300 days of gratitude
Congrats 🥳! 51 minutes ago
BreathRun has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi SausageDog. Welcome! You can post as often as you wish. Recently we had a bit of a discussion on the thread about the huge benefits of at least checking in o... 54 minutes ago



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