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therealme2020 posted a comment on Joy's in the early days of sobriety
Hi lost my way. You should see me here reading your post nodding my head up and down!! I can’t tell you how much I identify with this. I am on day 3. I still fe... 1 minute ago
therealme2020 posted a comment on My letter to alcohol
God, I could cry xx I hope I feel like this in the future. Your blogs are brilliant. Thank you. I’m on day 3. 6 minutes ago
Karenf has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
Just checking in quick to say congrats to PP. on 4 years , totally amazing.x 9 minutes ago
KittySweets has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
Thank you RG- glad you’ve got the chance of a mini getaway! Don’t buy into the noisy WA group. Just popped my head in to say woop woop to Patchoui Pepper for FO... 16 minutes ago
Eliza_95 has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Cathywhat a sweet story about the little hoglets ( have I used the correct word ?) Not so good to read about the drinker next door to you in the van , I wonder... 21 minutes ago
KeepStrong has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations team Namaste Strong! Well done Momofdaughters and FelixB on getting to 100 days! And DavinaN1 and Kara22 at the halfway point! Dee, how are you?... 27 minutes ago
PachouliPepper posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Lovely to see you too, Sheer. I pop on and off often. 28 minutes ago
Suenew posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
well done PP just what I needed to read today 35 minutes ago
FierceandFree posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Sobriety does not guarantee an endless perfect or even great life, but it leads to a life where you can do "that thing", that thing where you hold your head up,... 47 minutes ago
four has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
Rachel - Im so very to hear about your mom's fall. I hope it heals quickly. My mom had broken her hip and it was incredibly painful I remember.Glad to hear yo... 48 minutes ago
Soberista has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
❤   Please post Day 1 resets and new pledges as the first line in your post ❤   Please email me at sean@soberistas.com or PM your Team Leader if there are any e... 59 minutes ago
Soberista has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Enough - Thank you very much for my picture of Achill. Such a beautiful and tranquil place. ❤️ 1 hour ago
therealme2020 posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Your words have stirred something inside and given me a feeling of hope that I am going to hold on to. Thank you and congratulations. 1 hour ago
Screenjean posted a comment on Day 245 - Visit from the Wine Witch
Thanks, everyone, for your comments. So much good advice here, and I am so grateful for this space where I can be honest about my doubts as well as my hopes.... 1 hour ago
lilylily has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good morning and a big pat on the back to everyone on the boards today! I will not drink today - Day 39/100 1 hour ago
Emma19 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to my team mates in Namaste Strong!  10 days AF for me, my smug-bus has departed and I am struggling today, not so much in wanting a drink, but... 1 hour ago
Emma19 posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Congratulations to you. What a fabulous blog, I too needed to read this today, thank you x 1 hour ago
Sheer posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Lovely to ‘see’ you on here and what a milestone for you! Many congratulations on four years. What a beautifully expressed description of your progress towards... 2 hours ago
pudding posted a comment on Check my privilege
You can make a temp structure buy getting on here sev times a day .... poss speak to Soberistas who are in Italy .. inside knowledge or temp tour guide ? X 2 hours ago
Mylove posted a comment on Joy's in the early days of sobriety
Being sober is completely out of your comfort zone atm and it takes some time to start feeling able to sit with this. Its great that you have so much energy and... 2 hours ago
Screenjean posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Thank you for this inspiration and wisdom, PP. The realization that your question, "Is this it?" wasn't a question for sobriety, but for life really hit home... 2 hours ago
LeonaC posted a comment on Check my privilege
I hope you have a lovely time. I do love holidays but I can relate to the anxiety surrounding going on holiday. My dad is the same. i become extremely uptight o... 2 hours ago
Mylove posted a comment on Check my privilege
It looks like you’ve resigned yourself to going!so I guess its about arming yourself with as much security as you can.I trust your loved one makes you feel secu... 2 hours ago
Mylove has posted the blog Reflections
Ive been reflecting on what Ive been learning about my sober journey and come up with thee following:I have been surprised at the constancy (if that’s a word) o... 2 hours ago
vince posted a comment on AF 6️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ - Time In a Bottle
Hope you had a wonderful time, you look and sound wonderful ❤ 2 hours ago
vince posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
There is a similar story, that for the first few years we teach a child to walk and talk, then spend the rest of their lives telling them to sit down and shut u... 2 hours ago
Mellingtonboot has posted the blog Check my privilege
I feel shy about writing this.  I’m happy to blog about my problems with drink, my secrecy, my bad behaviour, my self-loathing, my inability to leave a wine bot... 2 hours ago
vince posted a comment on 2YEAR MILESTONE
That's so wonderful. Enjoy your 'peace'❤ 2 hours ago
LostMyWay has posted the blog Joy's in the early days of sobriety
So, I'm on day 4, some weeks I would go 2 or 3 days anyway so this is not too hard at the moment..but I know from experience this is short lived and it gets tou... 2 hours ago
Saffy565 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Late QACI, still here and AF. Great celebrations on Team Namaste and look at all those tenners and Monthers!I hope we all have a good day today.169/200 2 hours ago
vixblack has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 2 hours ago
Jayne_17 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to Nameste Strong and all the monthers. Amazing numbers!!Soso it will get better just take each day, hour, minute as it comes. It is so hard at... 2 hours ago
Mylove posted a comment on Rock bottom
Please don't hate yourself. Hate the situation but not yourself. Hating yourself will only bring you down further.Believe in yourself now. You know what you hav... 2 hours ago
Louise_128 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
checking in day 17 looking forward to the day when alcohol is not a daily thought! Actually hoping it happens. 2 hours ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions OK so we don't drink, now what?
Goodmorning All, Alys, That sounds very uncomfortable. Especially in the throat. I hope you find relief soon. I wish your OH well. It must be difficult to see h... 2 hours ago
Mellingtonboot posted a comment on AF 6️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ - Time In a Bottle
Many congratulations on 600 days, BabyO. What an inspiration! Have a wonderful day - you deserve it :) xx 3 hours ago
Carrie_47 has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
PP and Bubble you definitely are amazing congratulations to you both💕🎉🎉🎉🎉Bubble I can understand how sad you must be about your sister but lovely you are so clo... 3 hours ago
AnnMRay has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 3 hours ago
calmseas has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good Morning All! Congratulations to team Namaste and the monthers!! Welcome back Elizabeth! I also tend to pull away from all my sober supports when I have ent... 3 hours ago
Dóchas has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
PP and Bubble you’re both amazing .🎉🎊👏👏 Well done. philly the ring is fabulous!!! Health to enjoy it xClams best wishes re the vet trip xxoff to acupuncture x 3 hours ago
SallyG03 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 3 hours ago
Enough has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
FullofHope Qaci stands for quick accountability check in. For a full list of abbreviations go to 'how the thread works' above 3 hours ago
therealme2020 posted a comment on Joy's in the early days of sobriety
Hi lost my way. You should see me here reading your post nodding my head up and down!! I can’t tell you how much I identify with this. I am on day 3. I still fe... 1 minute ago
therealme2020 posted a comment on My letter to alcohol
God, I could cry xx I hope I feel like this in the future. Your blogs are brilliant. Thank you. I’m on day 3. 6 minutes ago
Karenf has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
Just checking in quick to say congrats to PP. on 4 years , totally amazing.x 9 minutes ago
KittySweets has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
Thank you RG- glad you’ve got the chance of a mini getaway! Don’t buy into the noisy WA group. Just popped my head in to say woop woop to Patchoui Pepper for FO... 16 minutes ago
Eliza_95 has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Cathywhat a sweet story about the little hoglets ( have I used the correct word ?) Not so good to read about the drinker next door to you in the van , I wonder... 21 minutes ago
KeepStrong has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations team Namaste Strong! Well done Momofdaughters and FelixB on getting to 100 days! And DavinaN1 and Kara22 at the halfway point! Dee, how are you?... 27 minutes ago
PachouliPepper posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Lovely to see you too, Sheer. I pop on and off often. 28 minutes ago
Suenew posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
well done PP just what I needed to read today 35 minutes ago
FierceandFree posted a comment on 4 years....And The Greatest Gift Of All.
Sobriety does not guarantee an endless perfect or even great life, but it leads to a life where you can do "that thing", that thing where you hold your head up,... 47 minutes ago
four has commented in the forum discussions Celebrating September
Rachel - Im so very to hear about your mom's fall. I hope it heals quickly. My mom had broken her hip and it was incredibly painful I remember.Glad to hear yo... 48 minutes ago



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