Giving Up Alcohol and Living Life in Control
It’s not very often that I like looking at myself in the mirror first thing in the morning. The reflection that greets me is just not one of the highlights of my day. You know what I mean. This morning, however, I greeted my reflection with admiration and respect. I looked myself square in the eyes (once I’d got them open) and said, “You’ve done it. You’ve bloody done it. Two years sober. Bloody well done”....Read more. Posted 27th August.
‘Girls With Class Don’t Need A Glass’ is a witticism engraved on a hip flask I was once given by a friend. The implication, of course, is that you are sophisticated and brazen enough to swig straight from the flask wherever you are. I have never used said flask but very much appreciated similar memes, if only because they validated my identity as a wine connoisseur. One Christmas, my father – a non-drinker – casually suggested that I may have....Read more. Posted 13th August.
Cockney raconteur Paul McMullan brings his own brand of quick-fire comedy to the Edinburgh Festival Fringe this August as he unveils his story of problem drinking, having no home, no job and two children. A candid and hilarious tale from this natural, charming storyteller revealing his fascinating journey from hitting rock bottom to overcoming his struggles in this eagerly anticipated debut hour....Read more. Posted 16th July.
So you’ve made the decision to not drink anymore, but the desire to drink keeps nudging you towards your next glass of wine. HOW do you not go there?
You start off well. Determined. Sure of yourself and the oh-so-many reasons not to take the next drink. All is good. Then it comes. The craving. The urges, compulsion, DEMAND! It’s like a huge hand around your neck suffocating.... Read more. Posted 27th August.
I only started to acknowledge my drinking problem when I no longer had one. Until I stopped drinking, I was unable to accept that this was my reality. “I don’t need to stop drinking, [insert lame justification here]”. I knew the truth on many levels. I knew that not drinking on any given evening was a really tough decision for me to make. I knew that often I would decide I wasn’t going to drink, only to find a reason why I “NEEDED” a drink....Read more. Posted 27th August.
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Hi All, thought I'd post this in general rather than my blog as it's more a technical question. The blog update will follow in due course....I bought and downloaded my first kindle book - Lucy Rocca's brilliant book on binning the booze, a little…Continue
If you have found yourself here today, then welcome. Our aim and wish is to help, support and encourage all those who are fed up and at the end of their tether with drinking, and who want the better life that is out there without alcohol. We are a…Continue